I have been struggling the last couple of months with the circle of life.
Within just 36 hours of my mother’s death we were overjoyed with the announcement that our first grandchild was on its way. But somewhere
in the midst of the emotional roller coaster of life, during those days, I found myself dealing with feelings that I didn’t even know were there. Feelings of discouragement and disappointment and disenchantment. Brutally honest rantings with God regarding MY choices for the end of my own life. I want to leave this earth for my heavenly home while I am still a vital part of society and my family. I don’t want to be a burden and overstay my welcome here below. …sound familiar?
This week while struggling to pray, in this emotional state, the Holy Spirit whispered “you are thinking too much of the creation and not enough of the Creator”. What a hard pill to swallow – not just because it was true…but because I have admonished and encouraged women I mentor and teach to not think more of themselves, as the created, than they do of their Creator! …yet I was doing exactly that…and it somehow felt justified. After all, with all that has transpired in my life these last several months; wasn’t what I was feeling just part of being human? Yes! But it really was nothing more than a “righteous” pity-party. I say “righteous” because I really did desire to be “morally right” and focus on God and not on myself – but in the midst of real-life events and human emotions and feelings….I lost sight of my Creator.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that I am over all these feelings now and thinking only of God. What I am saying is that I am choosing to place my focus in a different place than I have been. I do not know what life will look like for me in the next moment, hours, days, month and years. AND, even if I saw it all I wouldn’t understand or comprehend what my Creator was doing in, and through, my life. That is what we grasp for. But for all our grasping, we come away empty-handed with bleeding fingertips. God says “the peace of God which passes all understanding will keep my heart and mind through Christ Jesus”. Phil 4:7 There is only one way to have that peace. It is not focusing on me, myself and I!
If you have followed my blog much you know that I love the words to old hymns. I found myself quietly singing the words to the last verse of “My Jesus I Love Thee” while lying in bed last night.
I’ll love Thee in life, I will love Thee in death,
And praise Thee as long as Thou lendest me breath;
And say when the death dew lies cold on my brow,
If ever I loved Thee, my Jesus, ’tis now.
The only way I will “love my Creator God in life and in death” is by thinking more of Him and less of myself. This is my constant prayer and HOPE.